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Thursday, November 02, 2006

More Russian Kids Saved from Horror by American Parents

Deseretnews.com reports on yet another lucky group of Russian children plucked from the horrors of life in a Russian orphanage by heroic American parents. Not only does Russia refuse to protect and care for these children itself, instead treating them like refuse, but it erects huge financial barriers to anyone else trying to help. Isn't it shocking that this hardworking American family was asked to pay $40,000 for the privilege of saving these children from the horror that is modern Russia? How many other chlidren will go unsaved because of these cruel, barbaric barriers?

Russian adoption officials once told John and Amy Simmons that taking in two teenage sisters who had been pulled from an abusive home would be a waste of the couple's time because the girls were older. The Simmonses were advised they might want to adopt children who were younger and more beautiful. But a year ago the Simmonses had adopted the girls' younger sisters. And Amy Simmons had something else motivating her to bring the four sisters together on Tuesday. "I grew up in an abusive home," Simmons said from her residence in Francis, east of Park City.

Leaving a younger sister behind, Simmons, now 38, says she fled physical, mental and sexual abuse at age 15 and remained in state custody until she was 18. "For me to be able to have their family — what's left of it that can be saved — to be together means a lot to me," she said. "For them to be able to have each other.... I can't put words to that."

The older sisters from Vladivostok, Russia — ages 14 and 15 — met their two younger siblings, ages 4 and 6, for the first time Tuesday after months of adoption proceedings that, for all four girls, cost at least $40,000. The older girls were pulled from their abusive home before the other two children were born. The abuse continued, and authorities also removed the younger children from the home.

The hardest part in adopting the four sisters was telling the older ones that the family could not adopt a fifth sister, who is about 12 years old. She has a severe mental disability and remains institutionalized in Russia. One of the first changes for the older girls has been their names: Svieta is now Emily, and Natasha has become Annalise. Both kept their Russian names as middle names. "We wanted them to feel American," said John Simmons, 42. "They were all for that. They both wanted American names."

That makes nine children for the Simmons family, including three teenage biological siblings, a boy with Down syndrome they adopted as a baby in Las Vegas and a young Russian boy who is not related to the sisters. For now, it's two children per bedroom in the Simmonses' 3,500-square-foot home, which has a full basement. But the Simmonses are building a 13,000-square-foot house near Kamas. "I've been very fortunate," said John Simmons, who is president of a small family-owned business that builds pumps for the semiconductor industry. Simmons, who describes himself as a calculating person, said anyone who knows his family isn't worried whether they can handle a packed house. "We didn't go into this blind," he said. "We said, 'What's our family capable of? Can we do this? This wasn't about saving the world," Simmons added. "It was about keeping biological siblings together."

For him, adopting the older siblings meant saving them from possibly becoming another Russian orphan statistic, which, according to what he has read, means that without adoption, his girls likely would have ended up homeless and possibly driven to drugs and prostitution. For now, life for the two older girls is about adapting to a new environment. "We speak about as much Russian as they speak English," John Simmons said. He and his wife are taking Russian language lessons. "So there's a lot of charades at our house right now." The older sisters love spaghetti and hot wings, a switch from the usual soup, porridge and fish that their adoptive mother says they ate at the orphanage. The girls also had never really learned how to use a fork and knife, she said. And the sisters are into photography and scrapbooking, a means of documenting their new life. They'll have help from the family Web site, www.suncomesup.com. Today, they'll add meeting new friends in the neighborhood to their list of new experiences.



2 comments:

Penny said...

I have a friend that adopted two Russian orphans. Sweet, sweet little girls. They were surrendered to orphanges because they had cleft palates. A little vitamin B6, cheap and commonly given neonatally anywhere but Russia, would have prevent that. Both have had that repaired. They are loved very much.

Russians need to swallow their pride, get past their shame-based behaviors, mourn the past, forgive the stupidity of past generations, take some responsibilty and risks by getting off of their butts, demand real democracy, a free press, free speech, economic reforms that usher in unresticted capitalism as a level playing field.

La Russophobe said...

UGLY: If you read La Russophobe more carefully, you'd know that FAR more children are murdered by Russian parents than by American parents (and far more Russian women are murdered by their husbands than American wives by theirs). Russia is one of the world's worst sites of domestic violence, it's Russia's very worst feature as a nation (and that's saying something).

The fact that Russians won't care for these children, and won't facilitate others doing so, however, is even worse.